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Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Disasterous Week

Since 21st November till now, Dad and i haven been eating n sleeping well. My pants are kinda loose down, chubby cheeks hav mellowed down too.. i didnt realize stress could cause so much impact on my weight. My 3 meals was like 3-4 mouthful of rice only. No appetite at all and even in my sleeps, i keeps having flashback of my dad's co. Every nite, dar tucked me to bed w/o failed. I wanted to pop some panadols or wine to KO to hav a gd nite sleep but dar was v much against it.


We were punked.. a very painful and frustrating event. This is a hardcore lesson to learn. Gone are the ways the older generation works - agreement by verbal instead of black and white.


We need to vacant our current premises given @ a short notice n having large amt of goods.. is simply impossible. From searching a new premises to liaison w broker, negotiation, renovation was a hell for me. Thank god, i hav des, my parents n bro and my god-parents for the wonderful support.


Tears flowed down my eyes when dad said tat without me by his sides, he would hav gone mad, totally lost n duno what to do next. Really a hell of a time.


Each day ended w headaches n migraines... i hope this whole episode will b over soon.


We believe in retribution.. now we get punked by u. Dont worry man, mayb few yrs down the road, i will received news tat u will be severely punked by others or even the God. We wont touched you, is not worth dirtying our delicate hands.


Bcos of this, i cant go Bintan anymore.. this piece of shit isnt easy to settle. And Des is in a dilemma too, cos our co needs him too.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

No Flat = No Wedding = V True :p

Chance upon this report in Asiaone:

AS PROPERTY prices rise, some newly-wed couples are postponing their traditional ceremonies while they wait for a new Housing Board flat.

Many have been priced out of the resale market while others want to buy a new home, which means joining the hordes trying their luck at ballots in HDB sales exercises.

It is leaving couples in a dilemma. While they have registered their marriages officially, they are reluctant to hold the customary ceremony that legitimises the union in the eyes of the community, until they have a home to call their own.

Members of Parliament say they are getting more appeals from distressed couples.
Aljunied GRC MP Cynthia Phua, who raised a question on the availability of flats in Parliament this week, told The Straits Times that one or two such couples bring up the problem at her Meet-the-People session every week.
Although technically married, many of them live apart, in their family homes, while waiting to get a flat together.
Madam Phua said: 'For us Asians, once you hold back your customary wedding, you can't live together, and you can't even have babies.'

Deliveryman Ang Kah Liong, 34, has unsuccessfully applied for a new flat 10 times since he registered his marriage with his girlfriend three years ago. The couple - who earn $3,000 a month - live with Mr Ang's parents and three elder brothers in their family's two-bedroom flat.
They were determined to wait until they had a flat of their own before holding the customary ceremony but family pressure finally prompted them to hold it in September.
'I had no choice,' said Mr Ang. 'I could not wait anymore.'
People like Mr Ang are being caught in a supply-demand crunch.

The buoyant resale market, which has seen prices grow by 11 per cent in the first nine months of this year, is fuelling a demand for new HDB flats.
In the July to September quarter, five-room flats in Queenstown - a coveted district - sold for a median sum of $110,000 above their valuations. This means a buyer had to pay at least $110,000 in cash as that amount cannot be covered with a home loan.
So young couples who cannot afford such resale prices - even with government grants that can go up to $40,000 - are turning to new HDB flats.

MPs told The Straits Times that many seek help to get a new flat near their parents' homes but this can be difficult as these are usually in older estates where few new flats are being built.
Jalan Besar MP Lily Neo said: 'Many couples want to live near their parents in the Central Business District, but as you know, there aren't many flats there.'
They stand a better chance of getting a flat if they are willing to consider other locations, said Dr Neo.
Application figures for recent HDB sales exercises show how competitive the flat race can get.
The HDB received almost 8,000 applications for just 400 flats in Telok Blangah recently, and more than 1,600 applications for 516 homes in Punggol.
The HDB is pumping up the supply of new homes to meet demand. A further 3,600 flats are expected to be offered under the build-to-order system from now until March.
However, the Government has stated that it cannot meet all the demand for new HDB flats as that would risk creating an oversupply in the future.

Meanwhile 28-year-old secretary Koh Bee Leng and fiance Julius Lim, 30, who hope to marry next year, carry on with their house-hunting.
The couple have set their eyes on four-room flats in a mature estate such as Ang Mo Kio and Toa Payoh, but have had no luck in two sales exercises this year.

Ms Koh said: 'Everything is uncertain now, because of the issue of the availability of the flat. That's delaying our plan to get married.'

Monday, November 19, 2007

Be back after these messages. sorry i mean exams

Rene has been nagging @ me to blog, coz i never blog for quite some time. I be back after my exams. haha. going 25 soon...aiyo.

tata for now.

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Dim Sum

Went for dim sum w mum n dad, ah yi @ IMM Crystal Jade Restaurant.. they were late cos there's no parking lot so we roam roam around.

Guess what.. we saw a L-shaped sofa.. v nice, it was a love @ first sight. Too bad, we hav no living room to decorate it with so can only see n touch. Hahaa
Des was nagging he was hungry n didnt wanna walk but i still wanna continue viewing my sofa.. haha so i told him let's go old chang kee. He said - "I dun wan old chang kee". I said - "but buying fried sotong u noe"... guess wat's mr des reply? Okok.. let's go and he was smiling happily.. I suan him tat he's like a kid, kanna entice by me :p
Yup.. after tat he was happily munching his sotong and me using eye-power aiming @ my dining table n sofa.

Food was alrite.. i still prefer taka one.. at least taka hav our fav thousand layer cake.

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Mummy's blue

Yest mum says tat she cant imagine des's life in china. She is very worried tat he cant take care of himself... mum ask me how?

I told her, dun worry, he will take care of himself juz tat now, he hav u n me so you dun see him taking care of himself ma.. haha

Mum says he will be v v skinny when he finished his intern... she's kanna xin teng abt it. LG Des, even mum is worried for u huh.. haha. I can imagine Mummy gonna pump him w all the goodies b4 n after his trip. She is already secretly giving him more rice for lunch n somemore says tat des still finished everything n hw to slim down... But hw not to finish the food if her dishes is always so nice? SO is all mum's fault n nt really mine :p i'm trying to give u less rice dar..

Friday, November 16, 2007

Love or Infatuation

Infatuation is instant desire.
It is one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire.
It takes root and grows - one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity.
You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy.

There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely.

It might spoil the dream.

Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection.
It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyong you to bolster your beloved.

You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away.
Miles do not separate you.

You want him nearer. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him."

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement.

If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end in intimacy.

Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence.

When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating.
Sometimes you check.

Love means trust.

You are calm, secure and unthreatened.
He feels that trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later, but love never will.

Love is an upper. It makes you look up.

It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before.

Wednesday, November 07, 2007

Well wishes

Thank you everyone for your well-wishes... :) :) :) :) :) :)

Be having a post b-day celebration as des have reports to rush and exams are coming!! Stress level x 10.

Went GNC to buy health supplements w dad n mum cos i will be entitled to 35%. Planning for a Tony Romas feast by end of Nov as i hav a complimentary meal.

Dont mind a post celebration.. better still no celebration cos i dun wanna admit i'm 23. Arrww... still feel tat i'm 20.. ahhahah (pls dun vomit). I always ask des, hw old am i tis yr? or i will use the calculator 2007-1984. Haha,, mentality of my real age isnt save in my brainy.

Des said tat, he wont ask me to do tings for him on 6 Nov.. cos i will be the Queen. But he find is super hard and super awakard. Finally, he told me, he will have 3 requests.. haha

But he will be cheating w this 3 requests.. cos his 3 requests will be definately b 1) Fruits, 2) Tea 3) Orange juice / water or coffee.. and all this 3 requests made up of my daily routine. So.. it makes no diff whether am i a queen or not :p