Jus a tot

yest nite i watched a Korean drama and the hubby hav an affair w his wife's friend. His brother-in-law also had numerous affair before n was always caught by his wife said this base on his 'experience'.. it's the most immoral affair to hav with ur wife's friend.

And being in a marriage for 10 years with kids, you might not hav the passion to kiss n hug every now n then but you will hav this passion w ur mistress.. You stayed on with ur wife cos of responsibility but one will claim that u luv ur mistress alot cos tis is lust. Once u are sick w ur mistress, u will also lose this passion so y risk wreckin your marriage in the 1st place?

The show portrays a great diff btw the mistress n the wife in terms of dressing. Wife is so conservative, long sleeve, buttoned up to her neck, pyjamas whereas mistress is wearing dresses, v-shaped, n sexy nighties.
Once ur eyes are with ur mistress, whatever ur wife does, u will feel tat ur wife is so naggy n such a nuisance. Ur wife's good intention n care for u seems like a pain in ur butt.

I remembered tat Des told me before is up to an individual on whether a guy wanna to stray and whether he wanna to make it happens.

With efforts, the passion stays. With efforts, ther b rainbows. Efforts plays an impt part be it in r/s or marriage ya.

Des gonna nag tat i'm watching stupid show n gona blast him w stupid qns again. haha i shall get ready his gaming pc for him when's he back so tat he wont snatch the tv w me on sat nite... Yuppy.. i'm gona kick his ass to the pc. Sometimes, i love command n conquer in an indirect way :)